Tuesday, March 29, 2011

THIS IS ME.

Compliments from Elaine!

Sharks in the city @ KL convention centre

Sharks?????Jaws????

Myself (since I had depression...)

Hi, my name's Wan-Ling, my stage name's Taylor(Lynn)Tan, I don't know why,people come to me and say this is their's stage name, I also wanted one for myself and I go and nicknamed myself too! My surname's Liew, I'm married to a "Mr Tan" so normally, people want to add their hubby's surname just so to be owned, and so I 'retained' his surname for myself. I just go with the crowd. But I won't follow them if they're wrong!

I'm not living with my other half as the house is too small for my children and they needed the space to grow and their privacy at growing-up; I respected my children's needs and fore-go my space and my food for them to pursue their dreams..... I really love my children no matter what.

I am doing networking and I like to join a social hub but I do nothing wrong in the eyes of the community. I log onto my facebook everyday to check out on updates and what's what been happening around the social hub and my internet community....

I join in a game show once in a while as my Mom does limit my games and using of handphones to shoot. Sometimes it's risky and not worthwhile so I always stopped. My cellphone is not very good but it serves its purpose and it was given to me by my husband who got for himself a new i-Phone. I picked up his old cellphone left on the floor one day and he said I could keep it provided I fend for it and pay for its bills. That I did and I had been keeping the handphone for the past few years....

I don't talk to my husband that much, I hadn't been talking to him on his phone for about a year, he never picks up the phone so I sometimes send him text messages, that is all, but his mother is keeping an eye on him just so he doesn't end up sleeping with the wrong "chick".

I'm not working at the moment but doing odd jobs for people on and off. I am bubbly, always on the run and I like to laugh. I like a man with a good sense of humour, and I like to be cheerful at all times,because to me being sad is so dull......Sometimes it is uncanny to laugh so I will just "smile"....!

Sunday, March 27, 2011

My Kitchen, My Home, My Haven, where I feed the nest.

I used to learn to bake cookies and pastries when I was in Form Two. I took up Cookery Club in school. I asked my mom to buy the ingredients and brought them in a tupperware in school where I learned to bake. I, then bring back the cookies tight in a container and shared them with my father who loves to eat. He then financed my studies as I grew older. I have been baking cookies since I learnt the art from schooldays. Nowadays I seldom bake because my mother says it's cheaper to "buy" from the bakery shop and time is of 'essence' for us Stay-At-Home-Mom because we were having kids and the oven is flaming HOT. It's dangerous to let the children go near the oven when we were baking.(This is not an excuse). Later, we got for ourselves membership cards for buying bread and pastries and buns that we seldom bake nowadays. We were all "short-sighted". There are somethings that 'money' can buy and that's FOOD. Here's a caption of the cookies that I baked:

HAPPY COOKING!!!! I love ya all.

Friday, March 25, 2011

Hi, my name is Wan-Ling, and I'm small and puny......(pint-sized) but big at heart!

My husband and I used to take our children the the Park's PlayGround where all the see-saws, swings, and children's play horses were found... I would tag along with my honey who would bring his Kites as well as the kids and we would drive all the way out to fly kites in the sky....Then we would buy drinks and I would spend my children ice-creams.... My husband is someone who likes to be honoured.... and I,for one has sacrificed for my children, and in return, would definitely liked to be honoured and respected too..

Accept that , he would like me to turn into a Mother Hubbard / Mother Monster FIRST. My hands are crying out in pain and I told my Mom about it the day my second child was borned. My Parents took me to see the doctor to tie my tubes. I already had my tubes tied at a very young age and without daughters too. I love my Mom for it. It definitely has to be done. It's not about my breast size if that's bothering you, it's HIS MENTALITY. The world is soO BIG, show some HUMANISM which he doesn't have.I think it's about his money and it's about his characteristics - his UPBRINGING -what his MOTHER never gives. "LOVE OF GOD". There are no such things as RULES ARE RULES ~ showing some humanism while my HANDS MOVED! It does.The money is NO GOOD! I manage to arrange my expenditure well in order to provide for my means....(Praise the LORD!)

I was walking with my parents out in a park one day and my parents had to search for the toilet. So I had brought along my camera and I took a picture of myself with the help of a KIND LADY. Praise and blessing be to her! Photo as above. By the way, the trees are amazing.......Take a look.

I'd love to stay here forever......Anyway we went to the supermarket after this and bought  a WHOLE BUNCH of FOOD SUPPLY for the entire family's REFRIGERATOR! Here's a picture of it:

PRAISE BE TO THE LORD! Amen.

Monday, March 21, 2011

SINGAPORE SLING AT RAFFLES!(Me and my trip)

This is me, with no make-up, eating at RAFFLES, SINGAPORE. I looked awful....but the food was nice.
I went there on a function and ordered a SINGAPORE SLING (fruit punch).
After drinking it, that night, I slept like a log......


HAPPY HAPPY DAY IN SINGAPORE! Adiiioos!

Monday, March 7, 2011

EMERGENCY FUND MYTHS BUSTED: How much you really need to put away?

Three to six months' worth of expenses set aside in an emergency fund? Yeahhhh, right. More like three to six weeks' worth ........sound familiar???? An emergency fund is a stockpile of enough money to pay for up to a half year's worth of living expenses - helps prepare for life's disasters, such as losing a job or becoming too sick to work for a while. Yet for many of us saving that much money seems as daunting as learning how to whip up a 'perfect' souffle. After paying the bills and saving for retirement, who has that much extra money to save at the end of the month???? THE TRICK IS TO LOWER DOWN ON YOUR BILLS (spend less and don't pick up too many utilities- BUDGET on your broadband).

Lower on the totem pole. Here's something to consider before building a small fortune in liquid assets: emergency funds are not as important as saving for retirement and getting out of debt. That's because it makes no financial sense to pay 22 percent interest on credit card debt while your emergency fund which will probably be socked away in a money market account or high interest savings account, earns a measly 1.5 percent. And don't forget the MAGIC of COMPOUND INTEREST. The only time saving for an emergency fund should trump all is if you see a pink slip in  your future at work (customer foil - able to keep up the routine work of saving).

GRACE. Whenever you go shopping, or set out to buy something that you wanted, give yourself TIME to think of how to compensate. Give yourself TIME to sort your mind out whether you really are going to buy it. Or save it for Christmas. Somebody you love might buy it for you. Do yourself justice - just in case I fall sick, my mother is going to take care of me, so treat your mother "well"!!!!

Don't leave your LOVED ONES. Stay with them through the age of time. They will see you through, they will help you through. When you fall down, your mother is the first person to lift you up, don't let your spirit take you away from the one who truly loves you. Don't fall prey easily to salesmen, advertisements, commercials, etc......Don't be somebody who can be easily get carried away. Talk it out or negotiate.

Saving doesn't count. It's by giving that we will finally be able to receive. Give to the RIGHT PERSON. Don't be fooled by overzealous people. Time will bring change.

Saturday, March 5, 2011

How to Earn some Extra Money. WHAT IS LUCK?

Luck is a CHANCE follow by a CHANGE. Luck doesn't come easily to anybody. It must be seized. Sometimes you are always not lucky but once the down payment has been made, Luck might come unexpectedly. Unsuspectably. And you may NEVER know when or what time Luck arrives. The only thing is to be ready for it when it appears. Stand by for it. Get prepared so when the opportunity arrives at your doorstep you may be able to seize it. When you suspect that you are falling, then stopped for a while. Take a height and renew your pleasures closest to your soul.........When you are replenished and you are ready to take in some new adventures, why don't you take up the opportunity again.....The only thing is to be able to seize and grab hold of any chances or opportunity when it arrives.

Take this opportunity when it comes.The RedFm 50K Music Takeaway starting on Monday 7th March,2011. You may never know when will LUCK knock upon your door!